Are you about to leave a bad relationship or splitting? Are you about to leave a bad relationship or splitting?  Do you change your mind about ending your relationship? Do you want to leave  one minute and other times you want to stay? Do you feel your partner causes you to feel worthless or […]

 Rediscover love in your relationship. Are you feeling unloved or alone in your relationship? Do you want to rediscover  love in your relationship? Are you or your partner  distancing in the relationship or have a fear of intimacy? Do you or your partner not know how to express your feelings? Do you feel love but cannot say how […]

Improve your marriage by dealing with your past. Improve your marriage by dealing with your past. Our childhood shapes our marriage. Is it really true that our past childhood predicts our choice of partner? Discover how our childhood relationships shape how we feel and relate to our partner in the marriage. Individuals who feel bad about themselves […]

Why Borderline Abandonment keeps occurring in relationships? Borderline individuals fear abandonment and constantly end up in relationships where they become abandoned. How do Borderline personality disorder individuals burn out relationships, until partners abandon them? Borderlines constantly feel uncared for and mistreated as victims. How does borderline abandonment keep re-occurring? Lets begin with how borderline abandonment came about. How can a mother, who is dotting on her child, […]

How to change negative thinking? How to change negative thinking? Overcome seeing things the wrong way, that lead to low self worth. Change distorted  thoughts and feelings. How to stop emotionally beating yourself up or how to stop self-loathing. Negative thinking leads to low self worth Do you see the glass half empty instead of half […]

How to prevent marriage breakdown? How to prevent marriage breakdown? When marital issues arise, it provides an opportunity to work on nsive patterns with marriage guidance counselling.  Many couples issues because they feel they can sort issues out themselves. Our human blinds spots get in the way of us seeing our behavior. Our behavior remains out of our awareness, so we do not […]

 Are You Noticing Signs Of Passive aggressive Behavior In Your Relationship What are the signs of passive aggressive behavior? Are you frustrated that your partner says one thing  but actually does another? Do you feel they say things to please you, but have no real  intention to follow through? Individuals with passive aggressive behavior do not actually register their […]

Are you unaware of your aggressive behavior?    Many are told they have aggressive behavior, but they cannot see it. Many are not aware of their aggressive behavior. Often they feel they are the victim of others mistreatment, and so they feel that they have a right to defend themselves when they’re in a rage, in […]

Do you suffer from a fear of Abandonment Do you suffer from a fear of abandonment? Have you ever felt your fear of abandonment pushes your partner away?  Do you become suspicious and paranoid that they could find someone better? Do you hold on tight to your relationship, so they do not abandon you? Do you rely on […]

               Solve Couple conflict De-escalating couple conflict Couple conflict occurs when communication breakdown  takes over the relationship. In couples counselling Melbourne, partners are assisted to communicate their inner feelings, so they do not defend against them with being reactive. The escalating partner see’s what happens for them, in an argument with their […]