Warning signs your marriage is failing
Warning Signs your Marriage is Failing Have you ever wondered what happened in your relationship to lose that spark? Perhaps the beginning of your relationship was filled with love and romance, but then children, life and routine took over and now you look back and wonder why you fell apart. How do you detect the […]
What is a Closet Narcissist?
What is a Closet Narcissist? The Closet Narcissist appears shy or subservient. According to James Masterson, they present a ‘false self ‘that appears perfect, which hides an underlying vulnerability about feeling flawed for not being perfect. They often faced harsh criticism and are therefore hard on themselves or self critical, deep down, causing them to […]
How can our feelings ruin relationships without recognizing our emotions?
How can our feelings ruin relationships without recognizing our emotions? How can our feelings ruin relationships without recognizing our emotions? When we are not in touch with our feelings, we do not know what causes them. By not understanding how we feel, it can cause us to become confused and possibly think that others have […]
How the splitting defense mechanism is destroying your relationship?
How the splitting defense mechanism is destroying your relationship? Is your relationship filled with love and anger, where you want your partner to go, but then you do not want them to leave you? Are you tired of the push-pull? Full of ups and downs? Do you find it unbearable being together, but cannot be […]
The most common mistakes couples make in relationships
Common mistakes couples make in relationships are chasing a partner who wants space The way that couples attempt to get their needs met often do the opposite. The most common mistakes that couples make in relationships stem from chasing a partner who wants space to focus on themselves. It is natural for a partner to […]
Are you failing at love by the pursuer-distancer pattern in relationships?
Are you failing at love by the pursuer-distancer pattern in your relationship? Are your attempts to get closer to your partner pushing them further away? Are you failing at love by the pursuer – distancer pattern in your relationship? Are you pushing your partner away by your attempts to get closer towards them? Find out […]
Signs you don’t feel good about yourself
Signs you don’t feel good about yourself Here are the signs that you don’t feel good about yourself. Do you extend yourself to please others to feel good enough? Perhaps you have difficulty saying no because you want to please everyone. Do you worry about what people think of you because you do not feel […]
How to find happiness in the pursuit of the real self?
How to find happiness in the pursuit of the real self? Do you spend your time so focused on other people that you do not think about yourself? Do you offer to help loved ones and then never have time to do the things that you want to do? Do you feel guilty if you […]
The real reason you’ve become unhappy in relationships may surprise you
The real reason you’ve become unhappy in relationships may surprise you. The actual cause for you to be unhappy in relationships may surprise you. Offering relationships counselling Melbourne, I see how many get stuck in blaming their partner for the cause of the problems and wanting them to change, which prevents them from resolving the […]
Are you suffering signs of emotional abuse?
What are the signs of emotional abuse Are you suffering signs of emotional abuse? What are the signs of emotional abuse? Do you minimise how badly you’ve been treated and become hooked into feeling sorry for them? Maybe you’ve made it your mission to rescue them. Does your partner blame you for not meeting all […]