How can you have a relationship with a narcissist
Can you have a relationship with a narcissist? The question that many of my clients ask is, can they have a relationship with a narcissist or how can they have a relationship with a narcissist. After being lured into a relationship with a narcissist, many realize that the actual person is not who they […]
Underlying reasons why relationships fail
Underlying reasons why relationships fail Are there unconscious reasons why relationships fail? Many do not see the part they play in their relationships but they can see their partners part, as the reasons why relationships fail. Often many avoid the fear of being alone, fear of abandonment and feelings of not being good enough, […]
Reasons why you attract narcissists
Reasons why you attract narcissists What are the reasons why you attract narcissists? Do you ignore your gut instinct telling you to run, but something draws you towards them? Have you ever felt attracted to the bad boy or cannot resist a person who makes you feel good, even though you know that they are […]
How to detect a covert narcissist?
How to detect a covert narcissist? What are the signs on how to detect a covert narcissist? How can you spot a person who is a covert narcissist? Unlike the grandiose narcissistic personality disorder, who is invested entirely in themselves to feel special, the covert or closet narcissist invests in others to feel good about […]
Are narcissists capable of love?
Are narcissists capable of love? Are narcissists capable of love? I hear many who feel that narcissists are incapable of love. What does love look like to them? Can a narcissist form a loving relationship? What is the actual truth about being in a relationship with a narcissistic person? As a relationship therapist, I would […]
Reasons why relationships fall apart
Reasons why relationships fall apart Do you wonder the reasons why relationships fall apart in your life, despite how much effort you put into the relationship? Do you put all your hopes and dreams into a partner to feel good enough? Hoping for a partner to make you feel good enough can push loved […]
Are you falling in love or caught in a blinding fantasy
Are you falling in love or caught in a blinding fantasy Are you falling in love? Like many of us, it can be easy to get caught up in the chemistry and excitement when falling in love. However, have you ever noticed that after the honeymoon phase you wondered what you saw in that […]
Are you sabotaging relationships by blaming your partner for your feelings
Are you sabotaging relationships by blaming others for how you feel? Are you sabotaging relationships by making your partner responsible for feeling bad about yourself, when these feelings get triggered? How to prevent sabotaging relationships by blaming others for how you feel? If you feel your partner makes you feel unworthy or abandoned, then it […]
The Causes of Borderline Disorder
The Causes of Borderline Disorder of Self. What are the causes of Borderline disorder? Those who suffer a borderline disorder of self; are known for instability in interpersonal relationships, alternating between clinging and distancing behaviours as attempts to defend against perceived abandonment. They lack a coherent sense of self, since they defensively attempt to avoid […]
Are you in a destructive relationship or projecting?
Are you in a destructive relationship or projecting? How do we know if we are in a destructive relationship or projecting? Sometimes, we can feel our partner makes us feel worthless, unlovable or unwanted, when in actual fact these feelings could be triggered in us and get projected on to the partner, for causing us […]