Are you suffering signs of emotional abuse?   Are you suffering signs of emotional abuse and not aware of it? Do you minimise how badly you’ve been treated and become hooked into feeling sorry for the abuser? When you’ve suffered abuse or abandonment you can internalise that there is something wrong with you and look […]

The real reason you’ve become unhappy in relationships may surprise you.           The actual cause for you to be unhappy in relationships may surprise you.  Has your relationship got to the point that you are stuck in blaming  each other for the cause of the problems and wanting the other person […]

Why is it hard to break up from a narcissist and move on with your life? How can a narcissist charm you and instantly devalue you? Why do so many get lured into a relationship and cannot break away from a narcissist?  Why is it difficult to end a relationship with a narcissist? A narcissist will idealise their partner at […]

The Antidote To Get The Love You Deserve What stops you from getting the love you want? Why does a relationship feel so good at the start, and then you discover that the relationship was not what you thought? If you look for love outside of yourself, you will never get the love you want. […]

Common Mistakes Couples Make In Relationships Perhaps you’ve noticed that the way you attempt to get your needs met does not work in your relationship. The common mistakes couples make in relationships occur when a woman chases a partner who ends up withdrawing by ignoring her emotional needs. If you are suffering from unmet love […]

How to stop sabotaging yourself   Are you self-sabotaging by looking for others to feel good about yourself, rather than finding your own self-worth? You can treat yourself exactly how you feel about yourself. So, how to stop sabotaging yourself and feel good about your actual self. Are you sabotaging yourself by being all things to […]

Can You Have A Healthy Relationship With A Narcissist? You may have just discovered that you’re in relationship with a person who is a narcissist, and feeling overwhelmed right now. The question that you may be asking yourself is, can you have a healthy relationship with a narcissist? Perhaps you want to understand the ways […]

Why people betray the partner they love With the endless opportunities for temptation and desire it can be hard to stay faithful in the most committed marriages. For over a decade I’ve seen countless couples where infidelity and betrayal occurred, when the relationship appeared solid. The notion of why people betray the partner they love […]

How To Recognize Signs Of Borderline Personality Disorder A tell tale sign of borderline personality disorder is when a person has a fear of abandonment that subconsciously destroys their relationships. If you recognize that your fear of rejection is pushing away loved ones, you could be exhibiting the behavioural traits of borderline personality disorder (BPD). […]

How to deal with infidelity if the affair is not over.           If your partner cheated and you’re not prepared to let go of your relationship yet, it is essential to know how to deal with infidelity and not let your insecurity and mistrust get in the way, so your marriage […]