Understanding borderline behavior   It is not easy understanding borderline behavior. Those with with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can appear loving  or caring and then cut off for no apparent reason. They can react to perceived situations of abandonment. Often they can read into things that are not even there. They can become triggered to […]

How to deal with a relationship with a borderline partner    It can be very difficult to love someone with borderline personality disorder  (BPD) and know exactly how to deal with a relationship with a borderline lover. They can tell you to go away, when they actually want you there. So, the partner leaves and […]

  How to cope with BPD  It is difficult to know how to cope with BPD, in the emotional roller coaster of having borderline personality disorder. Coping with BPD is not easy.  They can alternate from love and anger, feeling good or bad, clinging or distancing. When they’re angry, behind it is love. When they’re […]

Why you keep attracting abusive relationships? Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting abusive relationships? How come you constantly end up in an abusive relationship, where you’re evolving your whole life around them, to find they never respect your needs or give you what you need in a relationship? Many put up with their  […]

Causes of Marriage Breakdown There are some indicators for the causes of marriage breakdown? How do couples know when their marriage needs some help? Many relationships can appear that they are working, but  are lacking intimacy or connection because they ignore issues and do not resolve them. After a while, the spark disappears, causing marriage breakdown.

  Are you about to leave a bad relationship or splitting? Are you about to leave a bad relationship or splitting?  Do you change your mind about ending your relationship? Do you want to leave  one minute and other times you want to stay? Do you feel your partner causes you to feel worthless or […]

 Rediscover love in your relationship. Are you feeling unloved or alone in your relationship? Do you want to rediscover  love in your relationship? Are you or your partner  distancing in the relationship or have a fear of intimacy? Do you or your partner not know how to express your feelings? Do you feel love but cannot say how […]

Improve your marriage by dealing with your past. Improve your marriage by dealing with your past. Our childhood shapes our marriage. Is it really true that our past childhood predicts our choice of partner? Discover how our childhood relationships shape how we feel and relate to our partner in the marriage. Individuals who feel bad about themselves […]

Why Borderline Abandonment keeps occurring in relationships? Borderline individuals fear abandonment and constantly end up in relationships where they become abandoned. How do Borderline personality disorder individuals burn out relationships, until partners abandon them? Borderlines constantly feel uncared for and mistreated as victims. How does borderline abandonment keep re-occurring? Lets begin with how borderline abandonment came about. How can a mother, who is dotting on her child, […]

How to change negative thinking? How to change negative thinking? Overcome seeing things the wrong way, that lead to low self worth. Change distorted  thoughts and feelings. How to stop emotionally beating yourself up or how to stop self-loathing. Negative thinking leads to low self worth Do you see the glass half empty instead of half […]